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Seasonal Eating: How to Adapt Your Kitchen to Changing Seasons

Many changes throughout the year can affect how you use your kitchen. In the warmer months it feels natural to lean toward fresh, light foods whereas in the winter people love warm, filling foods. Going a step further, focusing on eating foods when they are in season (and preserving them for future seasons) can really help to decrease food costs. I will share a list of some of the most common produce items available each season but it is non-exhaustive and will depend some on where you live. I love to embrace seasonal eating and like to have certain focuses for each of the seasons to help take advantage of what that specific season has to offer.

Spring Seasonal Eating – Prep and Finish

Produce in Season: Asparagus, Avocados, Broccoli, Collard Greens, Kale, Peas, Spinach Strawberries, Pineapples

Spring is the season of change. Of welcoming a new year. What better time to finish off some of the foods you preserved the previous year and create more room for the coming year? So make an effort in your meal plans to use up what you have available rather than making a trip to buy something else from the grocery store. If you want some meal planning tips check out my post Meal Planning for Busy People. Even if you are going for long term storage, make sure you rotate through your stores each year, using the oldest stuff first. This way you can make sure all of your food storage stays good to eat.

One of my favorite parts of spring is planning and planting a garden. Currently for us this isn’t a traditional garden due to our living situation. Instead, we do container gardening on our front porch and plant half the front flower beds with produce instead of flowers. It is a great way to maximize space and get to have a garden without land.

Summer Seasonal Eating – Fresh from the Garden

Produce in Season: Apples, Beets, Peppers, Blueberries, Cantaloupe, Corn, Cucumber, Cherries, Summer Squash, Tomatoes, Watermelon, Zucchini

With so many fresh produce options available, this is the ideal time to eat fresh from your garden (or the farmers market) as often as possible. This is good for your health, the planet, and your budget. And I don’t know about you but in the hot weather I would pick fresh salads and fruits over heavy stews any day.

Also take advantage of chickens laying extra eggs during the summer. If you don’t have your own, check to see if any of your friends or neighbors do or if any are available fresh from your farmer’s market. We don’t currently have chickens (definitely on the homestead wish list!) but my mother in law does and she often shares the extra eggs with us during the summer months.

Autumn Seasonal Eating – Harvest and Preserve

Produce in Season: Apples, Broccoli, Brussels sprouts, Cauliflower, Grapes, Green Beans, Potatoes, Pumpkins, Sweet potatoes, Yams

Autumn is my favorite season. There is something about the harvest that always gets to me. This time of year is perfect for harvesting large amounts of food from your garden (or buying it from produce stands), eating as much as your heart desires, then preserving the rest.

Preserving methods include curing fruits and vegetables, dehydrating, freezing, and canning (both water bath canning & pressure canning). These skills are a real art and I am still working on mastering all of them but they are also so much fun and really fulfilling. Taking the time now to preserve what you can’t eat really makes a difference a few months from now when nothing is growing locally and is a cornerstone for seasonal eating. Make sure to use the best preserving options for the produce you have. For instance peach jam is perfect for canning but broccoli will really be best if frozen.

Winter Seasonal Eating – Baking and Slow Cooking

Produce in Season: Avocados, Brussels sprouts, Collard greens, Kale, Onions, Oranges, Potatoes, Pumpkins, Sweet potatoes, Yams

Winter is the perfect time to run your oven! Filled with holiday celebrations and family get togethers, there is a beautiful air of warmth during the winter. During this season, I like to spend plenty of time baking because the oven warming up the house is a positive side effect rather than a negative one as experienced during the summer. And many of the most nostalgic items from this time of year, like gingerbread cookies, roasted hams, and warming stews, require long cook times anyways. So take advantage of it!

In addition to baking and slow cooking, winter is the perfect time to enjoy all of the wonderful food that you preserved the seasons before. While those canned peaches, pickles, and jams may look beautiful on your shelf, their true purpose is to be eaten and they will bring great joy there too. It is so nice to be able to enjoy the delicious produce all year long. Don’t forget about the food you preserved in your freezer as well! And if you need or choose to supplement with grocery store produce take advantage of the foods that are still in season, even if nothing currently grows in your immediate area. Also take advantage of their freezer section where you can buy foods affordably in the off season.

Coming Together

And finding joy

I hope this guide helps you make the most of your kitchen with the changing seasons and helps you find joy in each of them. I feel that seasonal living can really help to bring the focus to the little things in life and help us fully appreciate them.

Craft Charity Projects for Preemie Babies

Today I’d like to share one of my all time favorite charities. Preemies of the Carolinas is a beautiful charity that provides homemade blankets, hats, and inspirational hearts to preemie babies in multiple NICU’s throughout North and South Carolina. They also send packets to parents nationwide that have a baby staying in a NICU.

I came across this charity a few months ago when I was searching for some good community service projects to get involved with. Immediately I knew that I wanted to get involved and help bring some comfort to these preemie babies and their families.

Creating Inspirational Hearts

At first I didn’t know what they meant by inspirational hearts, but reading about it melts my heart. On their website they give a pattern for how to make them and explain the process as follows:

“Inspirational Hearts are given to mothers whose newborn infants have been admitted to the Newborn Intensive Care Unit. The fabric heart is worn against the mother’s skin so that the fabric absorbs the scent of the parents. The heart is placed with the baby in the isolette or crib so the mother is always with her child.”

If that doesn’t make your heart go out to those families I don’t know what would. If you are interested in getting involved you can find more details on their website at https://preemiesofthecarolinas.com/inspirational-hearts/ They also accept donations of crochet and knitted baby hats and blankets with details given at https://preemiesofthecarolinas.com/preemie-hats/ and https://preemiesofthecarolinas.com/blankets/

So far I have only had the chance to make a few blankets, hearts, and hats. But as I am putting together my second package to send to them, my heart is filled with love and compassion. I will be going through the process I use making simple flannel blankets with hand sewn edges, big granny square crochet blankets, 9 granny square blankets, and simple crochet preemie baby hats in future posts if you would like pattern ideas for blankets and hats.

I hope this will help to reach even one more volunteer for their cause, to help them fulfill their goal of comforting these preemie babies and their families. If you have any more questions be sure to check out their full website at https://preemiesofthecarolinas.com/

Cheap Date Ideas

Regular dates are so important. No matter what stage you are at in the relationship, having special times for bonding and recreation together can greatly strengthen your relationship. But these dates don’t have to break the bank. Some of the most fun dates are either free or very inexpensive and can encourage you to break out of your routine. Dinner and movie theater dates are great and all, but if that’s what you do for every date, it can get a bit routine. So mix it up a little! Here are 50 of my favorite cheap date night ideas.

Favorite Cheap Date Ideas

  1. Go Stargazing
  2. Go Hiking
  3. Take a Beach Day
  4. Go Fishing
  5. Video Game Night
  6. Board Game Night
  7. At Home Dance Party
  8. Make Dinner Together
  9. Make a Dessert
  10. Make Food for a Neighbor or Friend
  11. Do a Workout Together
  12. Try Partner Yoga
  13. Go Window Shopping
  14. Go to an Antique Store
  15. Do a Photoshoot
  16. Make a Campfire
  17. Plan a Future Trip Together
  18. Plan Your Next Halloween Costumes
  19. Watch a Movie at Home
  20. Watch Funny YouTube Videos
  21. Film a Fun How-To Video
  22. Do a DIY Project Together
  23. Go For a Walk
  24. Paint Together
  25. Give Each Other Massages
  26. Cuddle and Tickle Each Other
  27. Pick Out Books for Each Other at the Library
  28. Create a Time Capsule
  29. Go Geo Caching
  30. Try Out Science Experiments
  31. Volunteer at The Animal Shelter
  32. Volunteer at a Soup Kitchen
  33. Go for a Drive
  34. Be a Tourist in Your Town
  35. Go to a Local Fair or Festival
  36. Do a Seasonal Activity (Haunted House, Ice Skating, etc.)
  37. Have a Picnic
  38. Find a Free Local Concert
  39. Do a Photo Scavenger Hunt
  40. Go to a High School Football or Baseball Game
  41. Go to a High School Play or Musical
  42. Get Ice Cream Together
  43. Put Together a Bucket List
  44. Do a Puzzle Together
  45. Watch the Sunset
  46. Make a Scrapbook of Your Memories
  47. Go for a Bike Ride
  48. Play a Getting to Know You Game
  49. Have a Spa Day Together
  50. Host a Dinner Party or Potluck

There ya have it! 50 cheap and fun date ideas to do with your special someone!

Sweet Coleslaw

Perfect compliment to the BBQ pork sandwiches that I posted last week!

Sweet Coleslaw

This coleslaw recipe is simple, easy, and so good. The sweet and tangy dressing is the perfect complement to the crunchy cabbage and red onion. Put it together in the morning, a pull it out just before a summer party with family and friends.
Prep Time 20 minutes
Chill Time 3 hours
Course Side Dish
Cuisine American
Servings 8 people

Ingredients
  

  • 1 large green cabbage
  • 1/4 red onion
  • 1 cup mayonnaise
  • 2 tbsp red wine vinegar
  • 2 tbsp white sugar
  • salt and pepper to taste

Instructions
 

  • Slice cabbage and onion thinly and add to a large Tupperware container or bowl
  • Mix mayonnaise, red wine vinegar, and sugar in a small bowl. Add salt and pepper to taste
  • Pour the mixture over the cabbage and onion and toss thoroughly to coat
  • Chill in the fridge for at least 3 hours, stirring every hour or so
  • Serve with BBQ pork sandwiches or other summer dishes
Keyword BBQ, Coleslaw, Salad, Side, Summer

Easy BBQ Pulled Pork

Easy BBQ Pulled Pork

This easy BBQ pulled pork recipe is the perfect summer party recipe! It has the perfect balance of sweet, savory and spicy and is great served on a hamburger bun with coleslaw. And it is so easy! You can simply dump all of the ingredients in your slow cooker in the morning and then effortlessly shred the pork before serving.
Prep Time 10 minutes
Total Time 10 minutes
Course Main Course
Cuisine American
Servings 8 people

Equipment

  • Slow Cooker

Ingredients
  

  • 4 pound pork roast (our favorite is to use 2 of the smaller picnic roasts)
  • 28 oz Hickory & Brown Sugar Barbecue Sauce (Sweet Baby Ray's)
  • 1 red onion
  • 2-4 jalapeno peppers

Instructions
 

  • Dice the red onion and slice the jalapeno peppers
  • Add all ingredients to a slow cooker and cook on high for 6 hours or low for 8 hours
  • Shred the pork and return into the sauce
  • Serve on hamburger buns and rolls with coleslaw and any other favorite summer sides
Keyword BBQ, Party, Pork, Sandwich, Summer

What I Wear As A Homemaker

There is a lot of debate as to what homemakers “should wear”. Some people wear nothing but sweats, others are always wearing floral dresses. And there are people in both of these groups that totally rock it and feel great. Ultimately, this should be a personal choice and you shouldn’t feel pressure to dress a certain way just based on being a homemaker. Personally, my preference is to ride the line between feeling comfortable and feeling “put together”. I also don’t like wearing things that will get in the way when I am doing the tasks that I need to do for the day. So what I wear as a homemaker is going to be different on mostly cleaning days, mostly cooking days, or days that I am working outside.

Cleaning Days

For cleaning days especially, my go to are my favorite leggings. These are incredibly soft and honestly I would happily live in them permanently. They work great with a t-shirt when cleaning the house, but look nice with a blouse for out and about. And they also work great for under dresses in the fall and winter when it is cold. I feel like sometimes people are pretty judgmental about anyone who wears yoga pants or leggings on a regular basis but honestly, all that really matters is that you feel good about yourself.

Cooking Days

On cooking days, especially when we are having company over, I tend to want to dress up a little bit and wear soft dresses, like this pretty floral dress. Then I put a cute apron over it to protect it. I am currently working on sewing a different apron for each season based on this pattern. I like the vintage vibes from them and am very excited for them to be finished.

Working Outside Days

On days when I am working outside, it is all dependent on the season and the weather. In the summer I love wearing tank tops and denim shorts and just soaking in all the wonderful sunshine. It makes gardening feel almost like a vacation for me. In the fall and winter though, you can’t go wrong with classic jeans. They protect you from scuffs and if they get a little dirty, oh well.

I hope this post helps you to feel accepted and validated on whatever you choose to wear as a homemaker. And I feel like with as varied of a job as homemaking is, it makes sense to have a large amount of variation in our wardrobes. So embrace the changes! And don’t feel stuck. It doesn’t matter what other people think. What matters is how you feel, both inside and out.

5 Things I’ve Let Go of For My Self Care

Sometimes it feels like there is just too much pressure. Whether it is from the world, your job, your family, your friends, or just from yourself. This weight can really start to affect you physically, mentally, and emotionally. So sometimes we have to sit down, take a minute, and really think about which weights are worth carrying, and which ones it is time to let go of. Here are 5 things I’ve let go of for my self care.

Being the perfect wife, daughter, friend, etc.

A few months ago I really let my insecurities get in my head. I was obsessing about what the “perfect wife” for my husband would look like, act like, and do. And I was putting aside things that made me me, in order to achieve this. Not only was I not happy, but honestly my husband wasn’t happy either. He liked who I was and could tell that I wasn’t happy and was hiding myself.

Before this experience, I didn’t fully appreciate that he had picked me because of my differences, not in spite of them. My quest for becoming the “perfect wife” was putting useless and harmful pressure on me and our relationship. So I am letting it go. And trying to focus instead on the ways that I am already a great spouse to him, and how he is to me in return.

I know many other people have this same experience. Some have it with their spouse, and some have it with other relationships in their lives. By striving to be the perfect mother, daughter, or friend, you may be losing sight of the things that already make you a wonderful mother, daughter, friend, or anything else. And since no one can every truly be perfect you will never be fully happy if this is your goal. Most importantly, don’t lose sight of the fact that you as a person are good enough. You do not exist to fulfil a role in someone else’s life.

Keeping up with whatever the “New Joneses” are doing

Typically when people think of keeping up with the Joneses they think of buying fancy houses, cars, and clothing. But I don’t think this is as much of what people look up to and compare themselves to anymore. So we need to be aware of what the “New Joneses” look like and make sure that we aren’t falling into the same trap.

For me, I think the “New Joneses” are the people who have a beautiful large homestead, a spotless house, and gorgeous dinners on the table every night. But even though trying to keep up with this is a little different than trying to keep up with buying the fancy new cars to show off, it can still be extremely harmful. Especially when we only see the front that the “New Joneses” put out into the world and feel pressure that our whole picture should look like their front page. So I’m working on taking things one step at a time, closer to my goals and the things that I value, instead of trying to keep up with what these “New Joneses” are doing.

Following an outdated plan for my life

I have always been the kind to have a plan laid out for my life. And I had a different one at 16, 19, and 23. The only true constants between these plans has been that they didn’t actually work out how I thought, and after a couple years I wanted something different for my life. Sometimes I have held on to a plan for too long, even if it didn’t actually work for me anymore, just for the sake of “following the plan”.

I am working on letting go of this mindset for my own self care, but it is hard. I know that it is fear that makes me feel like I need to make a plan and follow it. But so many both wonderful and terrible things happen that we would never know to plan for. So we have to take it one step at a time. And let go of the idea that we have to follow a plan as we find our way in life.

Saying yes to everything

This is one that I’ve heard countless times. I didn’t really see the power of it until I applied it to my own life though. A few years ago, I worked at a job where you could basically have as much responsibility as you wanted, and if you always said yes, you would surely be overwhelmed. I was a young college student, eager to please, so I said yes to all the different opportunities that came my way. I nearly had a mental breakdown. And I felt like I didn’t have the time or energy for the things that were really important.

After this experience, I started being much more intentional with the things that I let into my life. And I acknowledge that it is impossible to be able to do everything that I would like to do. I recommend taking the time to write down your top 5-10 priorities, and looking at your life to make sure your time and energy are being put towards the things that actually matter to you.

Needing to stay busy

I feel like this one is a pressure that is especially felt by homemakers. When you are surrounded by your work, it makes it harder to separate work time from free time. But just because you work at home doesn’t mean that you aren’t deserving of time for self care.

I have also fallen into the trap of my hobbies needing to be “productive”. Like they needed to have a purpose other than simple enjoyment. This is such a sad perspective and prevented me from just enjoying things. So I am working on letting it go as well.

I hope that by sharing these 5 things I have let go of for my self care, it can encourage you to make the changes in your life you need to be happy and at peace. And let go of the things that weigh you down. Remember, it is never a bad thing to take care of yourself.

How to Grow and Care for Long Hair

For most of my life, I have kept my hair very long. I like the old fashioned vibes and it helps me feel elegant. I’m definitely not perfect in my hair care routine, but I wanted to share with you the things that have helped me to grow and care for long hair. Disclaimer: I have naturally straight hair and know that other hair textures require different kinds of care than mine does. I just wanted to share a few things that have helped me personally, and I hope they can help you too.

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Use a good and gentle shampoo and conditioner

Many shampoos contain harsh ingredients that are hard on your hair, like sulfates. I recommend choosing a gentle shampoo with mostly natural ingredients. I use Hask Coconut Shampoo and Conditioner. It makes my hair so soft while still feeling clean, not to mention it smells amazing! Make sure to use a kind that works well for your hair type. My husband who has curly hair and often grows it long uses Maui Moisture Curl Quench. He also likes smelling nice and having soft hair.

Word of caution: I would highly recommend avoiding soap based shampoos. A few years ago, I tried a couple different kinds of soap based shampoos with very poor results. I was trying to find a “fully natural” shampoo where I knew what every single ingredient was. But all of the ones I tried were SO drying and really damaged my hair. After doing some reading I found out this is largely because the ph balance of the shampoos were very off. It took me about 3 years to fully recover my hair after using soap based shampoos less than 6 months, not a fun experience.

Don’t shampoo every day

This one is a big one if you want to grow and care for long hair. I personally only wash my hair once every 5-7 days and have found that my hair not only has adapted to not get as oily, but has also been way softer than it was when I washed my hair more frequently.

I understand people not wanting to jump right in to only washing their hair once a week, but hair definitely doesn’t need to be washed every day. So if you want to grow your hair longer and softer, try stretching how long you go before washing it. Start with every 2 days, then maybe push it back to 3 or 4. That being said, if you don’t wash your hair enough, the oil buildup can be hard on your scalp, so don’t go crazy. Just find what length between washes works best for your hair.

Limit heat styling

I know the picture has my hair curled in it… but it was for a special occasion. Typically I only use heat styling on my hair once a month or so. But if you currently heat style your hair every day, even cutting back to once a week can really help you see improvements. And washing your hair less will help you to preserve heat styling for multiple days. One of my favorite ways to cut down on heat styling is to try out no heat curling methods. I have tried quite a few and my favorites are hair curlers like this and bath robe tie curls which I will be publishing a post on soon.

Use hair masks and oils

I try to do a hair mask or oiling session a couple times a month. One of my favorites is warming up a couple tablespoons of coconut oil and mixing in some of your favorite essential oils. Rosemary and lavender essential oils can help support hair growth as well. Make sure the oil isn’t too hot and then apply it to your scalp, massage in, and comb throughout the length of your hair. I recommend leaving it on 20-60 minutes then washing it out. I have heard mixed reviews about whether is it good or bad to leave on overnight so I generally don’t. Other ingredients to put in diy hair masks include honey and mayo and I’ve had good success with both. If you prefer store bought masks this one by Shea Moisture is a great option.

Wear your hair in protective styles

This is one I learned from the curly hair community and it is fantastic advice for all hair types. Hairstyles like braids and buns can help to keep your hair from drying out, getting tangled, or getting caught on things. This is super important before going to sleep. I generally spray my hair down with this and then braid it back before going to sleep so that it will be nice and soft in the morning. Btw the spray smells even better than the shampoo.

Comb your hair gently and slowly

Use a wide tooth comb to gently go through your hair instead of frantically brushing it. When you brush and pull hard you can yank out so many of the beautiful hairs that you have been working to grow. This will set back your progress substantially when trying to grow and care for long hair. So just take some time to slow down as you comb your hair. This can be a great practice in mindful self care. The spray that I mentioned above can be really helpful for resolving tangles as well, making this an easier job.

Get a trim when you need it

I don’t personally trim my hair as much as is typically recommended. But every 6 months or so I do cut off a couple of inches to keep the ends in good health. And it always feels nice too. As your hair stops getting as much damage on a regular basis, it won’t need to be trimmed as much as it used to. But it does take time and patience to get there.

Those are my top tips for how to grow and care for long hair. I hope these tips help you to grow longer, stronger, and healthier hair!

Homemaking for Busy People

I don’t always love home management but I love homemaking. I am distinguishing between these two terms because I believe that homemaking is the art of making a house feel like a home whereas home management is all of the tasks that keep a household running, including things like budgeting and meal planning. So homemaking is a part of home management, and for me, the most enjoyable part. Like I’m sure many of you do as well, I tend to romanticize homemaking with images, feelings, and smells of things like thick warm quilts, pies baking in the oven, and apple picking with my husband. So for this section the focus is on JOY! Here are a few things I’ve learned in my journey.

Work with where you are

This one has always been hard for me. I have been dreaming of my own house for years but we have yet to make it a reality. In the past, me and my husband were living in an apartment in a small city. Here we had a couple of bedrooms and bathrooms, as well as our own living room and kitchen. But a couple of years ago, we made the difficult decision to move back into my parent’s home in order to save money to eventually buy our own house. Here “our space” consists of a small bedroom where we have our bed, as well as a bean bag and tv set to function as our “living room”. The kitchen is ultimately my moms, but we can use it as we need. And the bathrooms are all shared. This has pushed me immensely to rethink my ideas around homemaking.

Ultimately homemaking is about making the most of where your are living right now, whatever that looks like. So if all you have to work with is one room, do your best to make it work. In some ways this forces you to focus on the area that would make the most of a difference to you anyways.

Embrace cooking delicious meals

When you are very busy, it can be hard to find time to dedicate to making your house feel like a home. But ultimately people need to eat. And your options are to get premade or takeout food, or cook something at home. The first two may be quicker but if those are your go to all day every day, it will end up costing you a ton and isn’t exactly feasible.

So embrace cooking at home, and try to make the best of it. Even if it is just a few times a week, try and get lost in the romance of cooking a delicious meal. This does not have to mean a difficult or time consuming dinner, just something that tastes great and can give you that sense of accomplishment and fill the house with beautiful smells. You may think you aren’t good enough of a cook. I promise that the path to becoming a great cook is simply one made by practice. Since I have embraced cooking as a hobby, I have turned a chore into something I truly enjoy.

Try out baking

That is if you haven’t already. Baking is one of the easiest ways to make your environment feel like home because the beautiful smells of fresh baked goods and warm comforting taste are truly hard to beat. I would recommend starting with something easy such as chocolate chip oatmeal cookies or a basic white bread. Stay tuned for my recipes on these. Another great thing about bread is that the vast majority of the time it takes to make it is just time spent waiting. It takes maybe ten minutes of engaged work, the rest is all the yeast and the oven. There is also something nice about ditching the consumer culture and making your own bread at home.

Decorate your space

Decorate your space with things that make you happy and remind you of wonderful memories. Be intentional. In our room, we don’t have too many decorations out but the ones that we do, we love. We have a wedding picture, a woodcarving we got on our first vacation together, a blanket from my husband’s grandmother on our bed, and some other things that we love. These small things make it feel not just like a home, but our home.

Do things out of joy, not obligation

Some people love sewing, others don’t. The same goes for gardening. These are two things commonly associated with homemaking. But they aren’t necessary. So especially when you have a limited time to spend on homemaking, don’t waste it on things that won’t actually make you or your family happy. Instead of doing things out of obligation, do the homemaking tasks that genuinely bring you joy, I promise that will be enough.

Check out the other posts in the Home Management for Busy People Series:

I hope you that homemaking brings you the same kind of joy that it has brought me.

Managing Everyday Chores for Busy People

Everyone has dishes and laundry, they are pretty unavoidable. And all spaces need to be cleaned up occasionally. I’ve found that these things weigh on me when they get out of control, and it is worth prioritizing the time to keep up on them. Here are a few tips I have for making it easier to manage everyday chores when life is extra busy.

Focus on the most important areas

While I was going to school, this meant to always keep my studying area clean. That way I had a nice place to focus without having the distraction of clutter around me. Now this has transitioned to keeping my living room clean because that is where my husband and I spend the most time at home now. So if you spend majority of your time in your bedroom for instance, taking care of it first can make a bigger difference in your life than another room.

Involve kids in age appropriate chores

If you have children, involve them in everyday chores that are appropriate for their ages. This will help ease the work load while also teaching your children important life skills. They will need these skills when living on their own in the future. Many college kids struggle when they move out and no longer have their cooking and laundry done by their mother. The kids who helped with family chores have one less learning curve when going to college which is really helpful.

Load directly into the dishwasher

If at all possible, load dishes directly into the dishwasher after eating and rinsing them off. Run it at convenient times like overnight or when you leave for work even if it isn’t 100% full. This way it gets done and will have room for the dishes from the next meal. Leaving them in the sink often leads to them building up and causing stress. When cooking, try and load dishes as you finish with them.

Keep cleaning supplies accessible

Keep cleaning supplies in an easy to access place so that you can quickly take care of messes as needed. This looks like keeping a spray bottle of cleaner and rag underneath the bathroom sink, keeping washcloths or “unpaper towels” in a basket or roll on the kitchen counter, and keeping a laundry basket anywhere that people normally undress, like the bedroom and bathroom. In general, people are much more likely to wipe down the countertops when there are washcloths within reach.

Clean as you go

Along the lines of the previous tip, try to clean up messes as they happen instead of putting it off until later. If possible wash the prep dishes from dinner as it is cooking and wipe up spills on counters immediately. This way you will not have to come back to these messes later in the day or week. Sometimes the hardest part about cleaning up is the mental overhead of starting and this trick can help avoid that feeling.

Fold or hang up only what you want or need

This tip may be a bit controversial… but in my opinion, when you are really busy and stressed, worrying about folding and putting away all your laundry may not be worth it. Sometimes just having separate baskets for clean clothes, dirty clothes, and clothes to wear again before washing is enough for items that don’t show wrinkles easily. Unless this is a specific priority for you, feel free to let it go without guilt.

Check out the other posts in the Home Management for Busy People Series:

Ultimately decide on the everyday chores that are most important for you and your family to have done, prioritize them, and let the others go occasionally.

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